So everything I thought about life, or believed has completely changed in the space of a year! 2010 will definitely be one of those years that I am QUITE alright saying goodbye to! I have heard about people going through life altering experiences that help them put the important issues that they need to focus on at the fore frontm but I did not realize that when life decides to start happen, it does not let up JUST because you are hurting, but instead it strikes harder!! This without a doubt is a tough pill to swallow since it is not nearly as easy to do what you have to do, when you would rather do what you want to. And yet here I am, alive and blessed and still going through the constant emotions that life is throwing at me!
My spiritual growth has been pivotal in the process of handling everything. There is no way that I could go on if I did not believe that there is something better. The phrase 'The Lord will never put you through something that you can not handle' has never rung more true. I am seeking for my salvation because nothing else in the world matters. My days of living young and free are not gone, but have definitely been redefined. My days of not caring and recklessly stepping out with no regard or emotion have long since left me! I used to view emotion as a weakness, but it has since become my biggest strength! I know I cry and express emotions sporadically now but hey it's a process.... but I know I would rather be loved today than cry tomorrow and wonder why I am alone. The idea of not being with one person for the rest of my life scares me, the idea of being desirable to a thousand people does not appeal to me as much as finding that one person who will see me for me! I have known love, I lost it, and fought the heartache that came with this loss! But now I know how I want to be loved..... I know how much love I have to give and my prayer is the Lord blesses me with a life, a love and a chance to be more than I have let myself become.
So basically, through my experiences, what I have learnt is that as a child of God, I AM WORTHY! This therefore is my declaration to being a saved lady who lives a life that I am proud of!
Sunday, October 3, 2010
Just a quick vent...
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Monday, April 19, 2010
Quick Guide on How To Understand An Aquarius Woman!
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Sunday, April 11, 2010
IT is WHAT IT is!!!!
BUT….. I just had a thought!!!!!! Ok, why hate on Janay!!!!
In reality, I think everybody has one or two people in their lives that they fall “stoopid” for. Right, and if that person loves you back, (or you think they do) then we have a Melanie and Derwin situation. The fairytale begins, and all that great stuff…. Then when that ends, and someone else steps in they immediately become a Janay. Their chances are half-ass cause they can never be, that person that gave you the initial butterflies, and made you all light headed just by thinking about them. We let the reality of our lives be clouded by the fantasy of what may be… The reality which is there is NO PERFECT situation!!! No happily ever after….Just WHAT IS! So I think the quicker people accept their reality and stop chasing the ‘what may’ this here life we live shall be a little more bearable!
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my future love. . .
I do not know you, but every part of me loves you. That special type of love that knows no bounds and no limits; Nothing in the world compares to what you mean to me. From the moment we meet and we lock eyes, to the moment I breathe my last, I know nothing can equate to the knowledge of knowing that…you…. Belong to me! I’m humbled to know you are in my life that I will be blessed to love you, cry with you, laugh with you and place my greatest hopes on you. The Lord gave you to me for a reason, he could have chosen anybody else, but he chose you for me. He placed you in my heart and everyday I thank him and praise him in advance because even though I do not know you… you have already changed my life.
I think of your smile, the shape of your eyes and the contours of your face. How I long to touch you, to feel your heartbeat against mine, and to share moments that will for eternity be lodged in my memory and in my heart. I pray I do not disappoint you, and each day I pray for strength that the Lord may mould me further into the woman I am meant to be for you. That my own insecurities and fears do not overwhelm me and hold me back from actively and efficiently being the Tatenda that you will require me to be. I am changing….and its because of you. I do not know you, but every part of me thanks you for changing my life.
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Thursday, March 25, 2010
Case of the Lion
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Thursday, March 11, 2010
Aint Karma a Bitch!
Doesn't it always seem like the moment you decide to start doing right, all the wrong u even thought of catches up with you and reminds you you got debts to pay. When people utter, "Karma is a bitch" take heed cause Karma sure does BITE. It grasps you with a hold that is beyond the ordinary, and the harder you fight to get free.... the stronger the bonds that have you trapped, grip around you. Tears make no difference to unrelenting Karma, as it seems like she Kanye shrugs it off; places the hurt and keeps it pushing without looking back.
So I sit and wonder, why do we play with Karma, and not pray on the knees that our Lord gave us. Why do we not think about tomorrow when we engrossed in the pleasures of today. Yes. The darker the berry, the sweeter the juice. I guess then, the more dirt you do, the more Karma headed your way.Karma has me in her stronghold. And as I try live out each day as best I can, I think of all the pain I have caused! all the hurt I have created, and the lack of willingness that makes me me, I weep. Weep cause I should have known better. I should have prepared myself for this.....Because honestly, what goes around comes right back around! So be wise. Be smart. and maybe when its your time to face Karma, she'll take it a lil easier on you!
Be Blessed!
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Friday, January 29, 2010
Valentines 'GAG ME' Day
I have never been a strong believer of valentine's day and yet somehow, over the years through all the madness, I ended up getting sucked in and low key celebrating it. So this year, i can be fully bitter and not worry about offending my significant other.Valentines day is FIBI, "For Idiots By Idiots". If he does not bring you flowers everyday and he brings u flowers on Valentines day, you should probably pack up all your things and move out now because you simply a token girlfriend and he bought you flowers cause there was a discount at work! If she cooks you breakfast in bed, she needs a reason to get you happy so she gets whatever she wants from you later, actually, don't eat the food, who knows what she put in it! OK...I KNOW....maybe not all the cases fall in this large and very well represented group, but a large portion do!
My first act as president of the world would be to REMOVE this day from the calendar! I feel like it was purposefully put halfway through black history month so instead of focusing on the many accomplishments of Black individuals, Valentines day serves as a distraction. The first half of the month, people are worried about either how they are going to spend this RIDICULOUS day and the last half of the month, mad cause it was not everything they wanted it to be! COINCIDENCE that one of the biggest hallmark days is placed in 1 of the most historically important months...I THiNK NOT! So if you really have someone special in your life instead of being concerned with how many roses they need, I suggest you both read bout Nelson Mandela, Martin Luther King Jr, Malcom X and other greats and call it a month!
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