Quick Guide on How To Understand An Aquarius Woman!

So if you know me, you know I'm not even the one to be quoting no kinda astrological nothing. (except when it comes to virgos cause those I CAN NOT DO! lol!)However, that don't mean that I do not recognize that I AM AN AQUARIUS!... It's been said...and i quote..

"Her dreams are very different from that of a normal female and she hums a different tune, which most of us have not even heard of."

Basically..you don't get me! But here is a quick guide on how to stay on this mysterious lady's good side:

1: "Loyal but detached and extremely non-emotional" so BASICALLY what that means is gain my loyalty...and I got you. Just don't start talking no 'Love Mess' cause I don't swim in that stream. Don't play me...Don't start nothing. So just flow with my flow. 

2: "she loves her freedom and if you accept this, she will love you more."...the book couldn't have said it any clearer...DON'T SMOTHER ME! This is that classic, 'don't call me, I'll call you' status. Not that I do not like attention, but I'm a strong believer of moderation.

3: "she will trust you completely, and will not be suspicious of your activities."-- Basically because I know what a great catch I am, I will not expect you to cheat. So as easy I am to play because I am totally unassuming, I am also very easy to lose, cause once I'm gone...I'm gone! PERIOD!

4: "she will always want to know your deepest thoughts and secrets, but her dreams are out of reach." -- You talk, I listen...I'm not the topic of conversation, if you NEED to know something, I'll tell you, the rest...Is my business!

5: "An Aquarius female may find it difficult to express her love in the form of hugs and kisses and you will have to teach her that"-- calm down...I'm working on it!!!

So let me be strange, let me be unusual! Take me as I am, cause I sure will take you as you are.I'm a 'heavenly bohemian' I live by my rules. That's all I know...actually, that's all that works!
 

IT is WHAT IT is!!!!

Ok…..wow! So I just had a game revelation! I don’t mean football but I mean “The GAME” as in the best show ever. I’ll give those not up to game a quick play by play so you understand the situation before I share my revelation. So there is Melanie, who moves with her college sweetheart, Derwin, to a new state so he can play professional football. She gives up her life and her dreams so he can achieve whatever he thinks he needs to achieve and of course he messes it up, cheats and they break up. Then while they broken up he meets Janay, and then she gets pregnant. But of course, Derwin is still in love with Melanie, she in love with him, and Janay now stuck in the middle. So until recently, I did not like Janay cause she killed the happily ever after that was meant to be Derwin and Melanie’s!



BUT….. I just had a thought!!!!!! Ok, why hate on Janay!!!!


In reality, I think everybody has one or two people in their lives that they fall “stoopid” for. Right, and if that person loves you back, (or you think they do) then we have a Melanie and Derwin situation. The fairytale begins, and all that great stuff…. Then when that ends, and someone else steps in they immediately become a Janay. Their chances are half-ass cause they can never be, that person that gave you the initial butterflies, and made you all light headed just by thinking about them. We let the reality of our lives be clouded by the fantasy of what may be… The reality which is there is NO PERFECT situation!!! No happily ever after….Just WHAT IS! So I think the quicker people accept their reality and stop chasing the ‘what may’ this here life we live shall be a little more bearable!

my future love. . .

I do not know you, but every part of me loves you. That special type of love that knows no bounds and no limits; Nothing in the world compares to what you mean to me. From the moment we meet and we lock eyes, to the moment I breathe my last, I know nothing can equate to the knowledge of knowing that…you…. Belong to me! I’m humbled to know you are in my life that I will be blessed to love you, cry with you, laugh with you and place my greatest hopes on you. The Lord gave you to me for a reason, he could have chosen anybody else, but he chose you for me. He placed you in my heart and everyday I thank him and praise him in advance because even though I do not know you… you have already changed my life.


I think of your smile, the shape of your eyes and the contours of your face. How I long to touch you, to feel your heartbeat against mine, and to share moments that will for eternity be lodged in my memory and in my heart. I pray I do not disappoint you, and each day I pray for strength that the Lord may mould me further into the woman I am meant to be for you. That my own insecurities and fears do not overwhelm me and hold me back from actively and efficiently being the Tatenda that you will require me to be. I am changing….and its because of you. I do not know you, but every part of me thanks you for changing my life.