IT is WHAT IT is!!!!

Ok…..wow! So I just had a game revelation! I don’t mean football but I mean “The GAME” as in the best show ever. I’ll give those not up to game a quick play by play so you understand the situation before I share my revelation. So there is Melanie, who moves with her college sweetheart, Derwin, to a new state so he can play professional football. She gives up her life and her dreams so he can achieve whatever he thinks he needs to achieve and of course he messes it up, cheats and they break up. Then while they broken up he meets Janay, and then she gets pregnant. But of course, Derwin is still in love with Melanie, she in love with him, and Janay now stuck in the middle. So until recently, I did not like Janay cause she killed the happily ever after that was meant to be Derwin and Melanie’s!



BUT….. I just had a thought!!!!!! Ok, why hate on Janay!!!!


In reality, I think everybody has one or two people in their lives that they fall “stoopid” for. Right, and if that person loves you back, (or you think they do) then we have a Melanie and Derwin situation. The fairytale begins, and all that great stuff…. Then when that ends, and someone else steps in they immediately become a Janay. Their chances are half-ass cause they can never be, that person that gave you the initial butterflies, and made you all light headed just by thinking about them. We let the reality of our lives be clouded by the fantasy of what may be… The reality which is there is NO PERFECT situation!!! No happily ever after….Just WHAT IS! So I think the quicker people accept their reality and stop chasing the ‘what may’ this here life we live shall be a little more bearable!